How to Stop Looking Outdated Without Looking Like You’re Trying Too Hard The midlife style conundrum — and how to finally move through it. The question I hear all the time “How do I stop looking outdated, without looking…
Strategic Dressing
5 Wardrobe Problems Midlife Women Face
5 Wardrobe Problems Women in Midlife Face (That Most Advice Doesn’t Fix) At some point, your wardrobe stopped keeping up with your life—and you feel it every time you get dressed. It’s not that you have nothing to wear.And…
What Do You Want People to Know About You – Before You Say a Word?
What Do You Want People to Know About You — Before You Say a Word? One exercise. Three words. A completely different relationship with your wardrobe. The exercise that changes everything When I start working with a new client,…
Why We’re Afraid to Be the Best Dressed in the Room On the psychology of shrinking our style — and what it’s really costing us. It’s not about the clothes Let me ask you something. When was the last…
Dressing for Your Future Self
I recently listened to Dr. Benjamin Hardy’s audiobook Be Your Future Self Now and am currently obsessed with the concept of the “Future Self.” This involves making decisions and taking actions today that support the version of yourself you…
Turkey Neck – 3 Ways to Camouflage Your Aging Neck
When I first started drafting this blog post, it was all about the virtues of the turtleneck sweater. The plan was to demonstrate how this humble grade-schoolers’ base layer mixes perfectly with your grown-up wardrobe. The post was born…
Professional Women – Don’t Waste Your Time Focusing on This
This article about Disney’s portrayal of women stoked a fire inside me. From a very early age we are fed these stories of how our beauty (read: f*ckable factor) determines our worth. I mean, look what we’re up against, Ladies!…
Only Carry-On? Part 3: Outfit Planning With Your Smartphone
Outfit planning is a fast-track way to turn your post-vacation mantra from “I barely wore half of what I lugged around the Mediterranean” to “packing is my super-power”. I touched briefly on the value of outfit planning in the…
Entrepreneurs – 3 Things You Must Know to Get Ahead in Business
Last week, Mara and I had the privilege of spending 3 days at the Forum for Women Entrepreneurs E-Series. E-Series is a once-a-year intensive business program designed to help female entrepreneurs grow their empire. We met lady bosses from all walks…
Travel With Only Carry-On Luggage? Yes, You Can! Part 2
What to Pack in Your Carry-On to Survive Stylishly By the fall of 2012 I was newly married, and my husband and I had 2.5 weeks of vacation time set aside for the honeymoon of our tightly-budgeted dreams. Since…









